10 Things Every Couple Should Stop Doing Right Now

October 22, 2016 9News Nigeria Editorial, Family & Relationships 0

We all know that marriage takes a lot of work. It is a serious commitment that takes the effort of both partners to make the relationship successful. Marriage is a like a plant that needs your attention and care to keep it healthy and growing.

In everyday life, we see so many couples filing for divorce (reasons could be many) due to lack of communication, high expectations or may be trust issues. Well, it just takes a conscious effort to introduce healthy relationship habits into your marriage. If your relationship with your spouse does not seem to be as healthy as it used to be once, then you should stop doing these things addressed below:

1. Taking your spouse and marriage for granted.

2. Bad-mouthing your spouse in front of others.

3. Expecting your significant other to always read your mind.

4. Bringing the past into the present.

5. Playing the blame game.

6. Holding grudges for each other rather than practicing forgiveness.

7. Comparing your spouse with others.

8. Losing yourself completely in the relationship. Instead, love yourself and cherish your independence.

9. Not accepting your partner as they are.

10. Ignoring finances. Be honest about money matters.

Marriage can only last a lifetime if two people commit to working on their relationship.Successful marriages don’t just happen: it takes time, effort and appreciation of both partners.

-Marriage