BY PRINCELY ONYENWE, IMO
The call for women all over the continents of the world to maintain a happy marriage life and live in the virtuous standard as proscribed by the Almighty God is paramount mostly at this recent era of high societal decadence and corruption.
It is on this, therefore that 9News Nigeria present to our readers an expert in family matters and home management who has penned down some serious tips to guide the spouses and mend broken marriages.
Her guiding tips reads as thus:
From my sincere heart and deep calling in the affairs of humanity and marriage counselling, I have some points to give to you dear husbands and wives as a take-home to improve your love for your spouses and maintain a happy living till eternity.
In this episode, I wish to start with some major strange attitudes that divides the home while people may be thinking that all it’s well.
Our Husbands have to be very sensitive on strange things that most Women do when they are having extra marital affairs with someone Else in a Relationship.
Men, you know ladies are tricky and crooked; you can never be too smart dealing with them but, if you have little exposure, they will outsmart you in the relationship, without you having any idea.
But, herein are major things you should always be watching out for in your relationship; whenever your partner does any of them, you have to man up and query her.
We all know that men are easily caught when they are cheating in a relationship; that is because of their simple nature and predictable traits.
Ladies are very crooked and smart; you need to be aware of these 6 ways that they employ to cheat on their partners in a relationship.
- The first sign is when she suddenly becomes so addicted to her phone that she rarely moves without it. This is an important sign you must take very seriously. Ladies tend to be more private with their phones when they have a skeleton they are hiding. Although, it is very normal to demand some privacy with phones, whenever it becomes too much, there is probably a problem.
- The second thing is when you are together and she started cutting incoming calls and refused to receive them around you and anytime she picks the call she leaves your presence. Or she rejects some of your calls at any point in time which may be very unusual of her. And by the time she calls back, she says she was busy or sleeping. That is a sheer lie, she was with another guy and that is the same thing she does whenever she is sitting with you, she won’t receive calls from other guys.
- The third sign is if she suddenly becomes disrespectful to you; this means that she already has another man. When she starts doing that, do not assume that it is a normal thing, take action. Ladies mostly do this when they have defect their allegiance to another man and they believe they have nothing much to lose.
- The fourth sign is when she asks for a break suddenly. This is the deadliest sign; in fact, she is probably planning a break up with you which may be imminent. You need to be extremely cautious at that stage.
- The fifth sign is when a minor disagreement quickly results to a major argument. This simply shows that she is getting tired of you. If it becomes frequent, you need to ask her what actually is behind her sudden temperament.
- The sixth sign is when she does not pay attention in most of your conversations with her or she suddenly gets lost in thoughts lately. Ladies are not natural thinkers like men but when you see your woman doing your entire thinking for you, you have to know that her mind is somewhere else.
Meanwhile, Dear women, it is a commandment from God that WOMEN be under MEN but in this recent days, such virtues are gone off women because of insincerity in our relationship.
Husbands are precious until you miss them, you will know their supper worth.
It is also on record that many ladies go artificially to satisfy their sexual urge and majority go into secret affair with fellow females just to get rid of men. Such act in both sides is demonic and destructive.
I wish to encourage the wise and Godly women to KEEP THEIR HUSBAND by being sensitive to the rules below written:
- Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
- Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other’s keeper.(Eph 5v12)
- Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
- Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
- Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
- Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
- Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
- Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
- Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
- Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over your duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones)
- Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
- Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
- Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that.(Eph 4v31)
- Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
- Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
- Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
- Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
- Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
- Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
- If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
- Don’t be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
- A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
- Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
- Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
- Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
- Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
- Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
- Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
- You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
- A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)
Remember the words of the Bible (matthew,7:12) that says “do unto others as ye would have others do unto you.Our dear husbands please to take our love and caring as foolishness.
Real love is priceless. It is unconditional!
I remain Yours Jenny
Stay safe! Stay in love!
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