Actor and media personality, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, commonly called Nedu, says any man who allows his partner to have a male “bestie/bestfriend” isn’t a “real man.”
While speaking in a video message shared on his Instagram account, Nedu warned men to be cautious of their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.
“If you’re a real man never in your life allow your woman whether it’s your girlfriend, fiancée or wife have a male bestie. Don’t allow it. I know what I’m saying. A real man would not allow that.
“Secondly, never fight your fellow man because of a woman. Real men don’t do that. Even if you catch your partner cheating with another man, you don’t have any business with the man. It’s your woman who disrespected you in the first place. So, therefore, never fight another man because of a woman.
“Thirdly, don’t chase after a woman who doesn’t like you. Don’t do that. It’s a waste of your time and resources.
“Fourthly, real men don’t spend money on women who doesn’t add value to their lives. By value, it doesn’t necessarily need to be financial. It can be psychological, spiritual, emotional or otherwise.” He said.