Mothers from Nigeria, Somalia Share Pain, Express Solidarity on Women’s Day

International Women’s Day is a time to reflect on the progress and immense challenges still facing women across the globe. To recognize this day, Voice of America hosted a discussion in which women from two of the countries impacted by extremism, Nigeria and Somalia, shared their stories.

Nigeria is fighting the brutal insurgency of Boko Haram and next month marks the third anniversary of the kidnapping of the 276 Chibok school girls, most of whom are still held by their abductors.

One of those girls is Sarah Samuel. Her mother, Rebecca, has not seen her for 1,059 days and cried when she attempted to talk Monday via satellite link from Abuja.

“Can’t we all come together as the world and wipe away her tears?” asked Aisha Yesufu, a member of the Bring Back our Girls movement, who spoke for Samuel.

“We should not allow terrorists to define humanity for us. We will be humane to each other. We will stand up for each other. We will speak for each other. We must show that Chibok girls are brought back home. We can not celebrate on International Women’s Day [while] our daughters are in captivity and we seem to have turned our backs on them.”

Last October, 21 of the girls were released by Boko Haram, prompting hope the crisis would come to an end.

But progress has been slow since then. According to a report this month by the Thomson Reuters Foundation, a mediator continues to negotiate with the group to secure the release of the estimated 195 girls who are still held.

Yesufu said the girls’ continued captivity is a stain on International Women’s Day.

“We say to the girl child to dare to dream, she should aspire … But you know what the girl child seems to know? Look at us now, I feel like as if it’s all a lie,” Yesufu said. “Because for 1,059 days our sisters have been in captivity, just for daring to be educated.”

An elderly woman at the IDP camp in Baidoa, Somalia, March 7, 2017, where the drought is severe.

In East Africa, Somalia is trying to emerge from two decades of civil war and is facing the threat from the terror group al-Shabab at the same time the region is being hit by a historic drought. Last week 110 people died in 48 hours as famine decimates much of the north.

“People are dying [from drought-related] problems and this is a national issue and everybody is involved in how to solve these problems and to feed our people,” said Batulo Sheikh Ahmed Gaballe, chairwoman of the Somali National Women Organization, speaking from Mogadishu.

The dire situation drives young people to flee in search of a better life in Europe. Some fall into the hands of kidnappers who demand ransom from families.

Mumina Sheikh Mohamed, the mother of a 22-year-old woman held captive in Libya, said traffickers are demanding $7,000 for her daughter’s release.

“Many women in Somalia [have] problems because children or the youth don’t have a job, don’t have good role model, they try to find out where they think they can build their futures,” Ahmed said, speaking for Mohamed.

A 2016 report from the International Organization for Migration estimated there were 264,000 migrants in Libya seeking passage to Europe.

In the face of all of this pain, women from both countries are persevering, supporting their families and pushing for equal rights.

And despite their geographic and cultural differences, the women from Nigeria and Somalia drew strength from one another. “What we would say to Somali women is let’s not ever give up. Let’s educate our children irrespective of gender. Education, education, education. Education is the easiest way to break the shackles of poverty,” said Yesufu.

“We must ensure that boys and girls get to school. When they get to school they get to be enlightened, they have the mind of their own. Nobody will come and tell them to come and join certain groups … and we must never give up. We must keep fighting.”

Founded in 1909, International Women’s Day is now celebrated worldwide. Issues of importance on the African continent range from ending harmful practices like female genital mutilation and underage marriage to increasing female representation in politics and business. In commemorating the day, the United Nations is calling for gender equality in the workplace by 2030.

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